Tag Archives: sick

Getting a Normal Result

It’s been a year since my breast cancer diagnosis. While I feel like I have finally recovered from treatment, that doesn’t mean my cancer experience is over. I am on medication to prevent a recurrence, and of course, I still … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 15 Comments

Waylaid

Almost five years after the first cases of COVID-19 in China, I finally got it. Honestly, I expected this test to be positive for flu. My husband and I had been testing COVID negative on rapid antigen tests for days. … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

Hello, Stranger

When I was diagnosed with breast cancer last October, I had grand plans: I would blog through my surgery and whatever treatment followed. I was hungry for examples of other people with ME who had been through cancer treatment, especially … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 31 Comments

“I have cancer”

I told my husband last week, “It’s just as hard to tell people you have cancer as it is to find out you have cancer in the first place.” So, let me take a deep breath and say: I have … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 56 Comments

29

I got sick on October 6, 1994. Writing a memoir that spans almost three decades requires a lot of self-reflection, not only about what I’ve been through but about the choices I made, what I got wrong, and what I … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 11 Comments

How to Avoid Covid

For the first time in three weeks, I live in a Covid-free house. Day 0: My husband was the first to get sick. He woke up with severe congestion and a headache, but tested negative for Covid on an antigen … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Do We Ever Stop Counting?

I have been sick for twenty-seven years, today. My sickaversary gives rise to different feelings every year. Burdened. Triumphant. Heartsick. Contented. Marking the day, here with you or on my own, feels important. October 6th is the day my life … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 15 Comments

How To Stay At Home

One thing I have learned during the COVID-19 pandemic is that people with chronic illness have a lot to teach healthy people. We have the skills and hard-earned experience of coping with social isolation and restrictions on what we want … Continue reading

Posted in Commentary | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Safety In Isolation

The COVID-19 pandemic has expanded dramatically in the last two weeks. I won’t attempt to summarize everything that has happened; there’s too much. Instead, I have gathered some information that I hope will be helpful to people with ME and … Continue reading

Posted in Commentary, Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

A New Virus and ME

Updated: March 3, 2020 There is a new coronavirus circulating the globe, and there are quarantines of different sizes in multiple countries. This has led to great anxiety in financial markets, the media, and in communities. And you might be … Continue reading

Posted in Occupying | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 36 Comments